Tuesday, January 17, 2017

Relating with yourself and others: Healthy insights




personality, relationships
  •  Stand for YOURSELF… something…someone… If you don’t, you’ll fall flat on your face for anything and everyone.  
  • As a matter of urgency, rid yourself of these crippling fears: Fear of incurring disapproval; Fear of looking bad or stupid; Fear of being alone; Fear of the unknown.
  • You have to replace an old disabling habit with a new enabling one; or else, crap fills the void. There is no vacuum under the sun.
  • Love soothes… it shouldn’t hurt. To trade virtue for flaws is fraud.
  • Don’t tolerate the intolerable.
  • Have the courage to walk away from what makes you unhappy. Your happiness is non-negotiable…
  • Your cherished cause would not be nourished, and your positive impact would not be felt, if you don’t express value consciously cultivated by you.
  • You cannot support others if you are not firm yourself.
  • Love is based on cognition. Why will you admire someone you don’t know or understand?
  • Instead of trying to change the wrong person, find the right person. It’s worth it.
  • Love is founded on mutual interest and benefit. Not for one man’s gain and the other person's loss.
  • Take me as I am or don’t take me at all.
  • We live in our minds; not other people’s minds. Never be stuck in other people’s web. Never let their coordinates define yours.
  • Choose your beliefs wisely; not blindly.   
  • You may lose control of yourself in an attempt to gain control of others…
  • ‘A good marriage is based on the Talent of friendship’. Friedrich Nietzsche.
  • Clean and clear communication makes relationships EVERGREEN
  • He that is his own friend knows to live.
  • I’m better company and lover now because I was hurt and lonely then. Pain is energy; what an irony!